6 Social Media Signs He Likes You

Many adults these days are on some form of social media, whether it’s Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Twitter, or even TikTok. These social media platforms allow for a lot of interaction with friends, family, and strangers from behind a screen without ever having to speak or look the other person in the eyes.

While some things change, many things continue to stay the same. We are all human after all. Social media offers new ways to meet, connect, and to flirt with others. But what happens when you’re interested in someone who has primarily established a relationship with you from afar and online?

They seem to be just as interested as you are but how can you be sure without asking them and making things awkward or getting rejected? Now if you are not interested you can always ignore or block them but otherwise here are signs to look for that it may be time to take your social media relationship offline.

He’s The First

A big sign that he likes you is that he is always the first to view your post or to make a comment. Sure, maybe he is just always on social media and is always the first on everyone else’s post as well, which is why you have to look for other signs as well.

He Likes All of Your Posts

By all accounts, he is your biggest fan. He seems to like all of your posts, which is nice because he makes you feel supported. Of course, this could just be him being a nice guy. So, pay attention if he is giving everyone else the same amount of attention and support.

He Gets Cutesy In Messages

He direct messages funny and cute messages. Someone “dm”ing doesn’t automatically mean they are interested but they definitely want to be noticed by you and to keep your communication private.

He Initiates Contact

You may notice each other online and may even like each other’s posts and stories but that is usually it on your part. Then out of nowhere he DMs you to create a dialogue.

He Mimics Your Activity

You post about hiking or going to the movies and suddenly he’s commenting how he just went hiking or loves the movie you mentioned.

He Knows A Lot About You

You didn’t tell him about the cruise you took but he reaches out and asks you about your recent vacation. These are definitely signs that he is keeping tabs on you and what you are doing and interested in.

While there is no sure way to know if someone is interested in you through social media interactions without them coming out and directly saying it, but there are signs. It will be up to you to weigh the pros and cons of waiting or addressing it. I always recommend that if you really like them you shoot your shot instead of wasting time on someone who is not interested.

What are your thoughts? Does this sound like someone you know or maybe like yourself? Please share your thoughts!

Charlene Eckstein

Hi there! I am a writer and blogger. I enjoy writing chick lit and children’s books. On Charley’s Blog Life I blog about love, dating, and everyday life.

https://www.charleneeckstein.com
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