12 Signs of Strong Sexual Chemistry
Sexual chemistry is an exhilarating feeling. It gives you a dopamine boost and makes you feel like you are going to float away or faint from the intensity of one simple feeling or interaction.
Sexual chemistry is an immediate and intense attraction to another person, characterized by both physical and emotional reactions like a rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath, or a general sense of euphoria when near them. It’s the spark that jump-starts many relationships.
Some years ago, I experienced strong sexual chemistry with a colleague. I remember, on one particular occasion, he squeezed in next to me in a crowded room at an organizational event. There was room for him elsewhere, but he wanted to be next to me. While listening to a speaker, he leaned into my neck and whispered in my ear to ask a question; I felt my pulse begin to race as I started to break out into a sweat. In a room full of people, I wasn’t sure; I hoped, in fact, that no one noticed the quick interaction between us, but I’m certain he was aware of my physical reaction. I saw him blush as he began to perspire as well. We both knew what just happened. We never discussed that interaction and stayed friendly as colleagues, but that is an example of strong sexual chemistry.
If you’re wondering if you have strong sexual chemistry with someone, I got you. Here are 12 signs of strong sexual chemistry.
12 Signs of Strong Sexual Chemistry
Prolonged Stares and Eye Contact
Hyper Awareness of Each Other
Blushing
Eagerness for Engagement and Interaction With Each Other
A Strong Desire To Be Physically Close
Flirting
Nervousness Around Each Other
Increased Heart Rate
Butterflies In Your Stomach
Giddiness In Their Presence
Distracted By Their Presence
If you are experiencing many or most of these signs with someone, you have several options on how to proceed. If it’s been a while, it may be time to shoot your shot and let them know how you feel. Or you can ask them how they feel about you. Hopefully you’re reading their vibe correctly.
Or you could suggest you two hang out and do something together. You could get coffee or a cocktail, or do an activity you both enjoy. What’s the worst that could happen? Your crazy strong sexual chemistry is worth exploring. Right?
In case you’re not ready or interested in exploring the sexual chemistry, you can always just enjoy the yearning until it fades, if it fades, and go on with your life.
Now I want to hear your stories about how you knew you had strong sexual chemistry with someone and what you did about. What are your thoughts? Please share!
“It was the sexual chemistry I wanted more of. It was electric. I'd forgotten what it was like to be with someone who excited you in every sense of the word, who thrilled and frightened you in equal measure.”
― Lucy Robinson, The Greatest Love Story of All Time
