7 Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings For You

7 Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings For You

Love is a complicated thing. Or is it that we just make it complicated? Either way, the heart came seem like a fickle thing as we try to find our way to the right one.

Believe it or not, some guys are just not open to love. The thought of being in a relationship and in love scares some men. He may have been hurt in the past, or dreads the idea of being tied down. Whatever his reasons, he is guarding his heart, and fighting his feelings for you.

A man is only human, and bound to develops feelings when the right one enters his life. If there is a man in your life who you believe to have feelings for you, here are the 7 signs to look for. He may be very interested but hiding his feelings for you.

7 Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings For You

Inconsistent Behavior

Some days he seems like he cannot get enough you, and other days you feel like he is ignoring you. When a guy is fighting feelings for you, his behavior can seems inconsistent and seem to be all over the place.

His feelings for you makes him want to stare at you, and spend time with you so he will give in to this desire occasionally.

Stares From A Distance

He’s giving off vibes that he’s not interested, but then you notice him staring at you from across the room. He will try to ignore you, and wants to be able to pretend that you are not there.

He may try to keep his distance from you, but if you are near, his eyes will find you.

Gets Close To You

When the two of you have to interact, he gets as close to you as possible. Although he may want to fight his feelings for you, when he gets the opportunity to be close to you he will take full advantage.

He wants to smell your hair, smell your perfume, and brush against you if possible.

Tries To Make You Jealous


He makes comments about other women in ways that feels like he is intentionally trying to make you jealous. He is almost like a child looking for a reaction. He is very frustrated, he’s confused, and he is conflicted about what he really wants.

He Knows Everything About You

It may not seem like he is listening or paying attention to you when you are talking to others but he is studying and learning everything about you. He is very interested.

He will also stalk your social media. He will be all over your Facebook and Instagram. He will even check out your Pinterest. This is a covert way for him to find out what you like, what you are doing, and who you are with.

Intense Mental and Physical Chemistry

Chemistry is a beautiful thing. In its simplest form it is just a connection with another person. You just click with someone. You feel an intense connection with him. He tries to hide his feeling, but he cannot help how drawn he feels to you.

He physically desires you, and the intensity of his feelings shows in his eyes when you catch him looking at you.

Body Language

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A man’s body language will tell you a lot about how he is feeling about you, regardless of his attempts to hide his true feelings.

If you pay attention to his body language you will notice that he gives you lots of eye contact, he will mirroring your behavior, and gesture on appearance such as fixing tie, socks, or hair. He may also get fidgety, and plays with things such as buttons or a pen, and touch his face a lot out of nervousness.

Honestly, it is better for a man to fight his feelings for you if he is unsure what he wants, rather that string you along for months or years because he was not ready for a relationship.

What are your thoughts on handling a guy who is fighting his feelings for you? Do you make a move, give him time, or just ignore him and move on?

“I can love who I think you are, or you can allow yourself to be yourself so that I can love YOU.” ― Kate McGahan

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