Why Some Men Enjoy a More Dominant Partner: The Psychology Behind the Attraction
Domination is about control, and when you allow yourself to be dominated you give up some of your control. Even the control freak likes to occasionally be the passenger and not the driver.
Some men like to be dominated, if only for a little while. He wants to be submissive behind closed doors, in the home, or perhaps just in the bedroom, but regardless of the location, he wants you to take over and dominate him.
The strongest, most confident of men often enjoy domination the most, and you may be asking yourself why, but after reading this blog it will make total sense. Here’s why he wants to be dominated.
5 Reasons Why He Wants To Be Dominated By You
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Relieves Stress
Stress is the body’s natural response to the pressures and challenges we have in our lives, and one has to find a way to manage it. Domination is not always about sex. Domination is often about mental and emotional releases. The role-play, the pain, and even the verbal domination can have an almost soothing and calming effect on a man who wants to be dominated.
Wants To Be Vulnerable
To be vulnerable means to make yourself open to mental, physical, and emotional harm. Men do not often feel comfortable being vulnerable. But in a safe setting and with the right woman, he can allow himself to be vulnerable, even if just under the guise of domination.
It Turns Him On
Yes, sometimes domination is a fetish. A kink or a fetish can be a specific focus that is needed for sexual arousal or gratification. Some men are masochists and enjoy a mixture of pain and pleasure. Domination can involve words of abuse or instruction, physical pain, or consist of small or big punishments.
Every couple has to explore and find their comfort level to make their own rules of play when it comes to domination in the bedroom.
He’s Powerful
Being the one always in charge is exhausting and stressful. Everyone is always looking to him for guidance and answers. Even if he's the one in charge in the boardroom or the office, he may want you to take charge at home or in the bedroom.
He knows that he is powerful, but giving up some of that control to you in the bedroom, and not knowing what you will do to him, excites him.
He Respects You
Most men are not just going to give up their power and control and be vulnerable with just anyone. But with the right woman, a woman he sees as his equal, he can be okay with letting her dominate him. If he respects you and trusts you, he can feel free to let go. Strong, confident men love strong, confident women.
The role of dominatrix is not for everyone, but just as he enjoys giving up his control for a time, you may also enjoy being in complete control of him occasionally.
Domination and role play are not for every man either; at least not every man is willing to admit it. So now that you understand the why, are you game for a little dominating? You and your partner make the rules. And don’t forget your safe word…LOL
Now I want to hear from you. What are your thoughts on dominating him? Do you agree with the rationale for enjoying domination? Please share your thoughts and experience!
“You must learn to let go. Release the stress. You were never in control anyway.” ― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
