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The Honeymoon Faze
The Honeymoon Faze is the second book in The Writer and the Billionaire book series.
With her stalker behind bars, Sascha can finally relax and enjoy life with her wonderful fiancé Devon and their new baby girl. A loving and passionate couple, Sascha and Devon cannot wait to tie the knot, but not everyone wants to see them get their happily ever after.
The envy of most women, Sascha’s life is nearly perfect, or so she is often told, but something just feels off to her. Despite being encouraged to move on from her traumatic past, and reminded that she is no longer in danger, Sascha cannot shake the feeling that she has more than one enemy in her midst.
As deadly events began to unfold, Sascha realizes that putting her nemesis in prison is just the beginning and that greater dangers are still hiding in the shadows.
Who can Sascha trust? And will her fixation on the past, destroy her future with Devon?
Now available on Amazon!
All The Best Things About Fall
Fall has always been my favorite time of year. I love the crisp air, the slightly yellow tint of the sun, and beauty all around as the leaves began to change color. I love the baking, the decorating, and the soup making.
I hate having to resist all of the goodies everywhere but take comfort in being able to hide under an extra layer of clothes.
Planting Season
I plant lots of herbs as the air turns cooler and check daily for the sighting of sprouts. My efforts are usually rewarded around the fourteenth day. Pumpkins are being carved, goblins are on display, and zombie warning signs are going up.
The fall herbs to plan are parsley, cilantro, mint, chives, rosemary, and thyme. All of my favorites to cook with.
Fall Foliage
To see the changing color of the leaves is a sight to behold. As the season change, so does the amount of sunlight trees and plants receive. With shorter days and less light, comes the beautiful changing of leaves from green to yellow, orange, and red.
Maybe you are fortunate enough to live in a place that offers all the beauty that fall has to offer, but if you do not, there are maps online to show you the best locations to enjoy the scenery.
Halloween
Halloween arrives and small and big children prowl the night on the search for free candy, trading cuteness for chocolate. Will a chill in the air, and a smile on my face, I hand out candy as I admire all the cute and clever costumes.
October ends and on the hunt I go for the perfect turkey. I will brine the turkey for at least twenty-four hours in a tried and true rosemary-garlic solution that will yield the tastiest, moistest turkey one could dream of.
Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving is a time for celebration and appreciation. We have good food and spend time with our loved ones, both friends and family. We enjoy cocktails and football, good conversations, and share plans and hopes for the new year to come.
On Thanksgiving night our beautiful Christmas tree goes up. Tired yet content to sit on the sofa with the family to watch lights flicker on the tree and listen to the fire crackle in the fireplace. Thanksgiving has once again come and gone.
Christmas Celebrations
December comes and the shopping frenzy begins, for most, but not me. I am an early shopper so most of my presents are wrapped and under the tree at this point. I enjoy evening walks around the neighborhood with the hubby and my girls, with my thermos of tea in hand, to spy all of the wonderful Christmas decorations.
On Christmas Eve, technically into winter, we open stocking gifts and track Santa. There is a tinge of sadness in my heart because I know my favorite time of year is coming to an end all too soon.
Christmas morning comes with me sitting by a fire, sipping coffee, and watching the children and husband open their gifts. Although happy I still have to resist the urge to pout about how fast it is all coming to an end. I remind myself to be thankful for all of my good fortune.
Dinner will consist of sides and a yummy baked ham before heading off to the movies. We come home from the movies to a Christmas tree with no presents under it and trash bags full of wrapping paper. There’s a mess to clean up and l can’t wait to do it all over again next year.
It begins...
What do you do during the fall? Do you have any fall or holiday traditions for you and your family? Please share your traditions or any suggestions!
It’s the first day of autumn! A time of hot chocolatey mornings, and toasty marshmallow evenings, and, best of all, leaping into leaves! - Winnie the Pooh
Best Harvest Wreaths For Your Front Door - Fall 2022
September kicks off my favorite time of year, and it is just a few days away. I love fall. The weather is so crisp, and fresh. It feels almost perfect. Then add to the near perfection with the beauty as leaves start to turn, and kids go back to school, it is just heavenly. For this blog, I decided to offer some suggestions on some of the prettiest autumn wreaths to hang on your front door.
Fall is my favorite season, and one of my favorite times of year to decorate. I do simple decorations both indoors and outdoors, and change it up as the season progresses. The options are endless with fall because you can keep it simple, and still have lovely decor. I usually start off fall with beautiful, colorful wreaths decorating both the inside and outside of my front door. I also hang one off the Juliet balcony in the front of my house. It literally takes minutes to transform the look of your home.
5 Beautiful Harvest Wreaths
Appalachia Berry Silk Fall Door Wreath 22 inch - Autumn Berries and Foliage Enhance Home Decor, Approved for Covered Outdoor Use, Beautiful White Gift Box Included
Montgomery Hollow Silk Fall Door Wreath 26 inch - Large Autumn Door Wreath for Outdoor Display, White Storage Gift Box Included
For me, there is just some about wreaths. Adding a wreath to your door or hearth somehow makes your home feel more cozy and welcoming. I have several wreaths for every season, which keeps my wreath storage container packed.
Weston Fall Berry Wreath 22 Inches - Enhances Front Door Decor with Designer Quality, Approved for Covered Outdoor Use, Beautiful White Gift Box Included
As the weather cools, you can start to add pumpkins and gourds to your garden for additional pops of color. While this blog is about harvest wreaths, which work great at Thanksgiving as well, don't be afraid to shake things up with halloween themed wreaths.
Saranac Berry Fall Front Door Wreath 22 Inches - Lush Seasonal Foliage and Berries, Approved for Covered Outdoor Use, with Beautiful White Gift Box
Montgomery Hollow Silk Fall Door Wreath 26 inch - Large Autumn Door Wreath for Outdoor Display, White Storage Gift Box Included
I hope you found my wreath suggestions helpful. They really are quite beautiful. How will you decorate your front door and home this fall? I am always on the lookout for more lovely wreaths. Please share your wreath or decoration suggestions!
3 Signs They Are Sucking The Life Out Of You...Is There An Emotional Vampire In Your Life?
Let’s be honest, we all have an emotional vampire or two in our life. Whether it is family, friends, coworkers or neighbors, there is someone you interact with who leaves you feeling drained afterward.
What is an emotional vampire? An emotional vampire is someone who drains your emotional energy out of you. They may do it all at once or little by little over time, but regardless of their process, they basically suck the life out of you.
It is important to recognize the emotional vampires in your life so you can take action and protect your mental health. Here are the 3 big signs to look for.
Signs They Are Emotional Vampires
You Often Dread Interactions
You dread interactions with them because they are often negative, overly critical, or tend to lash out at you because that is just what they do.
Whether it is a visit or phone call with your mother, or just your partner coming home from work, if you often dread interactions with them, they are an emotional vampire.
If the emotional vampire in your life is a spouse or a parent, it may be time to speak your mind and set some boundaries.
You Feel Anxious Or Upset During Interactions
You could be having a perfectly fine day, but whenever you interact with certain individuals in your life, they totally kill your vibe.
It could be your best girlfriend who is never happy, never has a positive thing to say, and feels the need to unburden herself on you with all her problems constantly. But of course, she never asks how things are going for you, or bothers to thank you for being a supportive friend.
Or it could be your boss or coworker who leaves wondering why you still work there. Your coworker who complains constantly and spreads negativity may need to be shut down and sent away.
You Feel Drained After An Interaction
After your friend has complained endlessly about her ex, or your mom has guilted you about not calling enough, so she can tell more often about what a disappointment you are, you feel drained.
If this is the case with anyone in your life, it may be time to avoid, distance yourself, or completely cut them out of your life.
As adults, we get to choose whom we have in our lives. If that means finding a new job, ending a friendship, or less frequent calls with an overly critical parent, then that is what you need to do for your own mental and emotional well-being.
Can you relate to this article? What are your thoughts on emotional vampires? Do you currently have one in your life? Please share your thoughts and stories!
You will always suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing things with logic. True power is restraint. If words control you, that means everyone else can control you. Breathe, and allow things to pass. - Warren Buffet
5 Biggest Marriage Complaints From Wives
I think at this point, most adults recognize that marriage is challenging at best, and hard work in reality. Love does not conquer all, especially when those in the marriage feel like they are being taken for granted and not getting the best effort from their partner.
As someone who has been married for over 20 years and has listened to many friends, relatives, and coworkers complain about their past and present spouses, it’s no wonder divorce rates are so high.
A happy and fulfilling marriage requires a team effort, and many women feel their spouse is just sitting on the bench and watching them take it for the team, constantly.
Here Are the Biggest Complaints Women Have About Their Marriage
Household Chores
Household chores and who does them can become one of the biggest sources of contention in a marriage. Whether the wife is a stay-at-home mom, or works full time, for many households, the wife does most, if not all the cooking, and cleaning, including picking up behind her spouse. She also does the shopping, bill paying, and pet care, and takes care of the couple’s social calendar.
If she stays at home, it is like her shift never ends, and if she works outside the home, she is doing twice the work of her partner. Can you say seething resentment?
Child Care
The common belief that women should be the primary caretaker of children in a family is still very prevalent, despite the fact that women are often financial contributors to the household and sometimes the breadwinners.
Some women ask “Is it that he can’t or he won’t take on more of the childcare efforts”. Obviously, dads cannot breastfeed but they can bottle feed. Both parents can comfort and discipline their children and help with homework, but many women complain that it all falls on them unless they ask their husbands for “help”. Yes, they have to ask for help from their spouse to take care of their own children. This is a source of frustration.
In-Laws
Whether the in-laws are too involved or not involved at all in the marriage and the family, they can be a source of contention for a couple, especially when there are grandchildren.
When a couple weds, the spouse has to come first, and a husband should stick up for and defend his wife against meddling relatives, and not expect her to tolerate hostile or toxic situations.
Monster-in-laws are not just a myth, they do exist.
Finances
Money has always been and continues to be a big issue in marriages. Who controls the money, who decides how the money is spent, and who pays for what is a big stressor for married couples.
Many households are dual income, but both spouses may not bring in equal pay. Whether all the money goes into one pot or the couples keep separate accounts, agreeing on financial goals and spending habits often creates disagreements.
According to a Department of Labor statistic, married women make 75.5% of what married men make. Unmarried, never-married women make 94.2% of what their unmarried male counterparts make.
Communication
It sucks to be married to a poor communicator. Communication is always the cornerstone of any good relationship, but it doesn’t work miracles. Communication has to be reciprocated and with good intentions. Listening is also part of good communication and so is being open to receiving information.
Many wives complain about having the same discussions, complaints, and arguments over and over again with their spouses. They don’t feel heard and often feel more like mothers and bosses than wives and partners. How do you express the same feelings and frustrations time and again without sounding like a nag or a shrew? Is the hubby just nodding his head but checking out of the conversation? Or is the wife expecting him to read her mind? I suppose both could be true.
In a relationship, if your partner does not consider your complaints and frustrations valid, you may be with the wrong person. Your partner should respect you enough to not want you working all day at a job and coming home and working like a dog taking care of the house, the kids, and him. A person who allows that to happen is selfish and has a lack of respect for you, and maybe a lack of love for you as well.
What are your thoughts on complaints wives have? What are your complaints? How did you address them? Did anything change? Please share your thoughts and experience!
“If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fcking phone call.” ― Greg Behrendt
Summer 2022 Streaming Watch List
It’s summertime and the perfect time of year to go on vacation or to just get out and about to the beach or the pool. But on those days when it’s just too hot outside, or for the nights you want to stay in, kick back with your favorite streaming service and enjoy some great shows.
For the month of July 2022, I am providing a list of a few older shows, and some newly returned shows to indulge in and binge-watch this month.
Here’s What to Watch This Summer
Stranger Things
When a young boy disappears, his mother, a police chief, and his friends must confront terrifying supernatural forces in order to get him back. - IMDB
Season 4 of Stranger Things just premiered this summer on Netflix. It’s dark, it’s nostalgic, and it’s fun. Watch all seasons 4 now and get caught up on the upside down.
Westworld
At the intersection of the near future and the reimagined past, waits a world in which every human appetite can be indulged without consequence. - IMDB
Westworld is a little bit of everything. It’s a mix of sci-fi, action, and mystery all packed into this beautifully shot show. New episodes of season 4 of Westworld are currently airing on HBO on Sunday nights. You can catch up on all prior seasons on HBO Max.
Anatomy of a Scandal
A sexual consent scandal amongst British privileged elite and the women caught up in its wake. - IMDB
This is a great limited series, that has a nice twist at the end. It’s the perfect binge show for a lazy Saturday, and it will leave thinking about people and perceptions. Available now on Netflix.
The Staircase
Tells the story of Michael Peterson, a crime novelist accused of killing his wife Kathleen after she is found dead at the bottom of a staircase in their home, and the 16-year judicial battle that followed. - IMDB
I originally learned of this story a few years after watching the Netflix documentary. This current production is a HBO limited series, with an all star cast. Very interesting, true crime story that leaves you asking yourself if you believe in coincidence.
The Gilded Age
A wide-eyed young scion of a conservative family embarks on a mission to infiltrate the wealthy neighboring clan dominated by ruthless railroad tycoon George Russell, his rakish son, Larry, and his ambitious wife, Bertha. - IMDB
I absolutely loved The Gilded Age and cannot wait to see where the story ultimately goes. If you love period pieces, costumes, and great drama, you will love this show. Season 1 is currently available on HBO Max.
Slow Horse
Follows a team of British intelligence agents who serve as a dumping ground department of MI5 due to their career-ending mistakes. -IMDB
Slow Horse is for the viewer who loves a spy drama. The cast is great, and the story is intriguing. Reminds me of the first Mission Impossible. I recommend it. Watch now on Apple TV.
Persuasion
Eight years after Anne Elliot was persuaded not to marry a dashing man of humble origins, they meet again. Will she seize her second chance at true love? -IMDB
Persuasion premieres on Netflix on July 15th. This is for the Jane Austen lovers, who love the yearn and burn romances.
The Boys
A group of vigilantes set out to take down corrupt superheroes who abuse their superpowers. - IMDB
The Boys is violent, vulgar, offensive, and deliciously fun and entertaining to watch. It is not for everyone, but these superheroes give a different take on how a world full of people with superpowers might be. Season 4 just premiered on Amazon Prime Video. Watch all 4 seasons now on Amazon.
Shining Girls
Years after a brutal attack left her in a constantly shifting reality, Kirby Mazrachi learns that a recent murder is linked to her assault. She teams with a veteran reporter to understand her ever-changing present and confront her past. - IMDB
This series is a mystery, crime, and sci-fi all wrapped into one. The show and the acting are great. I highly recommend it. Watch now on Apple TV.
The Umbrella Academy
A family of former child heroes, now grown apart, must reunite to continue to protect the world. -IMDB
Season 3 of The Umbrella Academy just premiered on Netflix. Season 3 is just as fun and silly as ever, with a new problem for the group to resolve. All seasons are now streaming on Netflix
I’m a multi-tasker so I love to pop on a good show and fold laundry, stretch, or just walk on my treadmill. I hope you enjoy my recommendations and have a great summer!
The Self Fulfilling Prophecy of Getting Dumped: The 5 Reasons Why They Left You
Some relationships were never meant to last, and deep down we always knew it. We want to be happy and enjoy the relationship, but we cannot get the negative thoughts out of our heads which tends to create a self-fulfilling prophecy. The self-fulfilling prophecy is also known as the interpersonal expectancy effect.
A self-fulfilling prophecy is the psychological phenomenon of someone "predicting" or expecting something, and this "prediction" or expectation coming true simply because the person believes or anticipates it will and the person's resulting behaviors align to fulfill the belief. Wikipedia
The sad thing about self-fulfilling prophecies is that our behaviors play a huge part in the outcome of situations, in this case, relationships. When you had doubts, you acted out, and possibly changed the trajectory of your relationship, and drove them away.
Here’s Why They Left You
You Are Insecure
Confidence is sexy, and insecurity is…well, unsexy. Your lack of confidence in yourself makes you feel insecure in your relationship, which makes you behave clingy and possessive. No matter how many times your partner tells you they love you, they find you attractive, and that they think you are wonderful, you continue to seek more and more validation, which is annoying and drives them away.
Your insecurity is a turnoff. If you do not believe you are worthy of love, how can you expect anyone else to believe it?
You Are Jealous
A certain level of jealousy is normal, but you freak out if your partner smiles at the attractive bartender or waitress. You are checking their phone, tracking their whereabouts, and constantly grilling on their comings and goings. They wanted a partner, not a parent.
If they give attention to anyone other than you, it puts you in a mood and you punish them for it later by ignoring them or withholding affection or intimacy.
Ultimately, behavior like this ends with the opposite of the intended effect.
You Are Controlling
Controlling partners make their mates miserable. Relationships are supposed to be about compromise, but it has to be your way all the time. You want to decide where you live, who you are friends with, where you eat, what you eat. It all has to be your because you believe if you can control them, and control the relationship, they will stay with you.
Unfortunately, when you try to control your partner, you only motivate them to want to leave you and take back control of their life.
You Are Mean
Our fears can manifest themselves in many ways, anger and meanness are a couple of examples. You fear losing your partner, which makes you angry and resentful of them for “making” you feel that way. Instead of recognizing the emotion for what it is, lashing out and meanness occur.
You become insulting and short-tempered with them, and may even betray them because you feel entitled to because you suspect they will eventually leave you.
You Checked Out of the Relationship
Hurt them before they hurt you may be your philosophy, which is terrible, self-destructive, and doesn’t actually prevent you from getting hurt. It just ensures you always end up alone.
Relationships require work and maintenance to function. When someone emotionally checks out of a relationship, they stop being a supportive partner. They stop trying. If you emotionally check out of a relationship you may stop doing both the big and the little things that made your partner feel cared for and valued. Once you check out, you ensure the demise of your relationship.
It takes a lot of self-analysis and self-awareness to recognize when you are unintentionally sabotaging your relationship and creating the self-fulfilling prophecy that will lead to your partner dumping you. This blog gives you examples of what not to do if you are worried about being hurt and being dumped.
You have to remember, just like you chose them, they chose you, as you are. They chose you with your looks, your income, your intellect, your body, and your brain. Yes, some relationships will not work out., but a successful or a failed relationship does not determine your value. You are good enough, but not everything is meant to be.
What are your thoughts on self-fulfilling prophecies? Any experience with ruining a relationship because you were worried your partner would break things off? Please share your thoughts and experience!
“Then she told herself to stop her nonsense. If you looked for things to make you feel hurt and wretched and unnecessary, you were certain to find them, more easily each time, so easily, soon, that you did not even realize you had gone out searching.”
― Dorothy Parker, The Portable Dorothy Parker
6 Signs Of Love Bombing... What Is Love Bombing and Why You Need To Stay Away From Love Bombers
Love bombing is a newer term for an old tactic. A Prince Charming or Fairy Princess comes into your life and sweeps you off your feet. They give you everything you thought you wanted in a relationship and more. They make you feel loved and special and seen. They seem almost perfect. Almost too good to be true.
What is love bombing?
Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It can be used in different ways and for either positive or negative purposes. Psychologists have identified love bombing as a possible part of a cycle of abuse and have warned against it. - Wikipedia
Love bombing is so effective because it plays into our fantasies of what romance and relationships should be. The hope of finding your one true love and the person who just gets you. The problem is that love bombers hide behind tactics to deceive and make their victims believe that they are different from the other men and women in their past and offer something special and unique as a partner. In reality, they are terrible mates and have very little to offer a partner in the long run.
6 Signs of Love Bombing
Rushes The Relationship
After two dates, they are declaring their love for you and want to move in together. They want to meet your friends and family right away even though you two are still getting to know one another. They say you are soulmates and insist you two are meant to be.
You may even hear them spout the term, “when you know, you know” to justify the fast-moving relationship, and the demands they are making of you.
Excessive Attention
A love bomber will give you more attention than you ever had from any other romantic partner before. They will want you to spend all of your time with them. If they are not with you, they are texting, calling, and yes even tracking your whereabouts.
Excessive Affection
A love bomber cannot get enough of you. They will want to constantly kiss you, hold you, and be intimate with you. They do not respect boundaries. You are not one for public displays of affection but they will want to stake their claim on you for everyone else to see.
Lots of Gifts
A love bomber is very generous. They are overly generous actually, and right from the start. Dinners, flowers, trips, and lots and lots of gifts. They are sending flowers to your place of work so everyone can see. They will take you out on expensive dates, and they will buy you gifts and jewelry that is inappropriate for the stage of your relationship.
They are luring you in with a false promise of their generosity and giving nature when in all actuality they are the opposite. They are actually selfish.
Puts You On A Pedestal
A love bomber will tell you how wonderful and perfect you are, but also make you feel like they are the only one who appreciates you and sees your worth. They will make you feel like a hero but also like your value is attached to them and your relationship with them.
Acts As Your Protector
We all want to feel protected when we are vulnerable, but a love bomber will make you feel like there is a boogie man behind every corner and only they can protect you. Suddenly, they are convincing you that everyone is the enemy, including your family and friends.
They only want you to trust them. They will try to convince you that people you have known long before them are untrustworthy and manipulative, and want you to cut them out of your life for your own good.
Love bombers are really just your standard manipulative narcissists. They seem different than anyone else you have ever known before, at first. But as the mask slips away, and you peel back the layers, you may find that you have been duped. All of the above signs are red flags and the classic bait and switch tactics of love bombers.
What are your thoughts on love bombing? Has it ever happened to you? How did you get away from that situation? Please share your story!
If you are a survivor of abuse, please find help at Helping Survivors.org.
“Abusers are notorious for rushing the first stage of intimacy, something that's often described by survivors as a kind of 'love-bombing'. This phase is electric and full of promise. Survivors commonly recall being swept off their feet by a man more passionately interested in them than anyone had ever been before.”
― Jess Hill, See What You Made Me Do: Power, Control and Domestic Violence
Check out the recent Apartment Guide article I was featured in:
10 Expert Tips To Help You Build A Sick Day Kit | ApartmentGuide.com
Nothing is worse than waking up in the morning and feeling under the weather. Whether you're sniffling or experiencing flu-like symptoms, you're going to want to have necessities on hand to help you feel better faster. This is why you should build a sick day kit, so it's ready when you need it. To help you get started, Apartment Guide reached out to us and other experts for our best advice on building a helpful sick day kit.
“A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures in the doctor’s book.” – Irish proverb
Here's Why Some Women Make Men Nervous
It goes without saying that some women have an out of this world effect on some, if not most men. She walks into the room or just makes eye contact with men and they become nervous. But why do they become nervous? It is about attraction or intimidation?
Strong, confident, and powerful women are forces to be reckoned with, and it takes a special type of man to handle all that she is. Confidence is often said to be sexy., but it is not just about the physical aspect of her effect.
Here’s Why Some Women Make Men Nervous
She’s A Boss
She’s a boss. I mean she may literally be the actual work boss. She is in charge, sure of herself, and has power over the people who work for her.
Or maybe she’s an independent woman handling her business, either way, her mere presence is commanding. A boss woman may make some men feel unneeded, unaccomplished, and unworthy. She brings out their insecurities.
They Are Drawn To Her
Men are drawn to her. Whether or not they find her beautiful or sexy, there is just something about her that makes some men nervous in her presence. Her confidence and independence are sexy.
This woman is sure of herself and knows that she can get what she wants and knows how to go about doing it.
She Unintentionally Emasculates Them
She does not do it on purpose, but she tends to emasculate some men. Some men have fragile egos that constantly need stroking, and some women make it clear that they do not need a man for anything. She does not want his help and does not need his help, but is all fine and dandy, but it can make a man feel useless and less than.
She Is Very Open and Direct
She is very open and direct. When a woman knows herself and knows what she wants she may be very opinionated, very demanding, and very forward in her approach to men. She is not one to sit back and let life happen to her.
She takes charge. She goes after the career she wants and the men she wants.
She Is Unpredictable
She is unpredictable. She will keep you on your toes. She is not like other women. Sometimes she is soft and other times she is hard. She is passionate and then she is disinterested.
She does not care what anyone else thinks. She knows her mind and expresses her thoughts and opinions when it suits her.
Women who make men nervous play by their own rules. They do not let society dictate how they act and how they handle situations and life in general. She can be all things, and most importantly, she is completely comfortable being herself.
What are your thoughts on women who make some men nervous? Are you that woman? Are you a man who has met these women? Does this type attract or repel? Please share your thoughts and experience with being this woman or being attracted to her!
"When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid." - Audre Lorde